Are women equal with men? Are women equal with men? Are men equal with women or men are more equal? آیا زنان برابر با مردان هستند؟
همانند جامعه سیاهان آمریکا و داشتن تلوزیون سیاهان (بلک اینترتینمنت) من هنوز معنای روز زن را هضم نمیکنم. به نظر من پیشرفت در شعور انسانی و مساوات از آن جایی میایید که اگر روز زن هست باید روز مرد هم باشد. چرا نیست برای اینکه مساوات برقرار نیست واین روند در مقایسه با تاریخ طولانی جهالت بشری بسیار سریع به نظر میرسد. اما چرا سرعت تغییر افکار جهانی با همان سزعتی که کاربران سلفون یا کامپیوتر در دنیا رشد میکند برابر نیست. چرا انسان که ماشین خلق میکند و انسانی که ماشین را به عنوان ابزار استفاده میکند به همان سرعت در راه پیشرفت اخلاقیش تلاش نمیکند. تا هنگامی که در کشورهای جهان , زنان باور به تساوی نداشته باشند و در این راه قدم نگذارند چگونه میتوان جایگاه زورگویانه مردان را که هزاران سال در ان تکیه داده اند به دو تکه تقسیم کنیم و در کنار آنها بر روی یک صندلی بشینیم و زندگی مساوی و مشابه را روبروی هم داشته باشیم. در جامعه های پیشرفته ای که هنوز روانشناسان آن معتقد هستند رنگ صورتی مورد علاقه دختران و رنگ آبی مورد پسند پسران است و شرکتهای اسباب بازی سازی عروسک را برای دختران وماشین را برای پسران طراحی میکنند زن چه مساواتی میتواند داشته باشد
در ایران فقط 13درصد از زنان ايراني مشغول به كار هستندد اما مقصر کیست؟ مقصر جامعه ای است که به زنان کار نمیدهد یا مردانی که اجازه کار کردن به زنانشان را نمیدهند یا زنانی که به تنبلی عادت کره اند و ترجیحشان این است که بهتر است که این تساوی فقط در بعضی موارد وجود داشته باشد. روند رشد فکری ما(زنان و مردان) بسیار کند پیش میرود و دلایل آن هم بسیار فراوان است که اسباب بازی منتقدان سیاستمداران و فعالان زنان و حافظان حرمت انسانی است. اما تا از خودمان شروع نکنیم این تساوی در حد یک ایده زیبا و قرن بیستمی باقی خواهد ماند
فردا نه امروز
مریم نیکخواه
Are women equal with men? Are men equal with women or men are more equal?
Each country has it own constitutions , history and culture but history has been harsh with women from the beginning. Why this non sense, unequal and unfair life continued so long?
Simple answer in our Iranian school books were repeatedly says that: Because women are emotional, woman's should be mom, produce milk and taking care of babies for 9 months and they are not able to function the same as men all life long.
Now we are living in a 21th century and we have almost one hundred years of fighting for woman's right history. We want to see men and women are equal. How many percentage of these goals were ever reached and what country or what culture achieved more.
Where we are standing now ?
Where should we start?
We can not ignore all of the leaders life achievements and victories for one step ahead toward this awakening. But how close we are and how much more time we should waste? As long as women don't believe it and don't act like a man and do not stand in one shadow or height this fight won't go anywhere.
We are living in a society that sociologists say girls like pink more likely and boys have more attract to blue, but they don't mention that girls for years had to chose pink and they have been told that they should be soft and boys have been encouraged to be harsh and tough.
In most of the developed countries toys for boys are cars or guns and toys for girls are dolls or kitchen tools. How in this society that it is been divided and defined the description of a boy or girls position in a future with branding in their head .... can wish for an equal future?
In Iran only 13% of women are working outside their homes! Why? Is this because their men don't allow them to work outside home or society don't give them this opportunities or it's just women who feel like they don't want to work and they want to be lazy. Are these women prefer to have equality only on some parts(segments) of their life?
Until we have Women 's Day while there is no Men 's Day we are not moving toward equality. It is just like Black American who has Black Entertainment Channel which is showing all of the black movies, black music , black food recipes and black history. As long as we divide us from other group it means that we see each other divided.
If women and men don't believe the meaning of the equality today and don't practice it today; tomorrow won't come and it takes forever to fight for something that women can achieve today.
Why people around the world don't change their views and beliefs with the same speed of technology? Human make and create technology and use it for his and her own benefits. How many cellphones and computer users around the world and how fast they are switching to the new devices or units? Why don't they change their observations and behavior towards equality with the same speed?
Why tomorrow.... do it today.
Maryam Nikkhah March 7/2011
